- A metal box encased by forest
- Held treasure deep inside.
- Dark as night and cold as steel
- Yet something did abide.
- Something big, something warm,
- And round just like the moon.
- Something quiet, something known,
- And like an angel’s tune.
- And then it’s opened amid the cries
- And darkness flees away.
- The humble treasure so deep and soft
- Touched a heart that day
- It wasn’t long ’til that pure gift
- Grew and begat two more.
- It wasn’t long ’til its pure owner
- Rushed on out the door.
- The night before was spent so slow
- Trying hard to relax
- And now, just dawn, it was time to meet
- With out a ne’er glance back.
- And there they knelt upon the mount
- With forever in their eyes
- Shining bright with radiant light
- Not seeing th’others die.
- Others gone, where they now stood,
- Two lives not seen again.
- Two lives which now replaced by one
- Were on the road again.
Author: Kim Siever
I live in Lethbridge with my spouse and 5 of our 6 children. I’m a writer, focusing on social issues and the occasional poem. My politics are radically left. I recently finished writing a book debunking several capitalism myths. My newest book writing project is on the labour history of Lethbridge.
I’m also dichotomally Mormon. And I’m a functional vegetarian: I have a blog post about that somewhere around here. My pronouns are he/him.
Goodbye 2010
What a year!
This year, I did the following:
- I started LethbridgeTraffic.ca
- I attended a ballet performance for my two oldest daughters
- I was laid off from the University of Lethbridge after working there for 9 years
- I started Southern Alberta Home Schooling Supplies with Mary
- I started Lethbridge News
- I was hired with H&R Transport
- I got a puppy
This year was filled with ups and downs. Here’s hoping 2011 is a bit more even.
This is cross posted at Our Thoughts.
There’s only a week left until the municipal election here in Lethbridge, so this morning I figured it was high time I buckled down and finally choose someone to publicly support for mayor.
I knew right off the bat that it wouldn’t be Rajko Dodic. He has accused me of being partisan, and has done nothing to engage me as a voter, certainly not like Kay Adeniyi, James Frey, and Cheryl Meheden have. In addition, Dodic has shown in the forums that his solution to dealing with criticism and conflict is to either deny any issue exists or tear down the person criticizing. Besides, despite his claim to have experience, Dodic has never been mayor.
I don’t think Dennis Carrier or Adeniyi are solid candidates. Both of them fall apart at the forums and don’t have concrete solutions when asked difficult questions. Adeniyi has some great ideas, but he lacks real experience. That being said, he can be a solid candidate in the future if he works on getting more involved in the community and doing more thorough research on the issues.
Frankly, when it comes down to it, I have struggled between Frey and Meheden. This isn’t surprising really, since I originally had been helping them on their campaigns.
So, why did I end up choosing Meheden over Frey?
Last Tuesday, at the all-candidate forum at the Lethbridge Shelter and Resource Centre, when mayoral candidates were asked why they feel they are qualified for the job, Meheden said she was a PhD candidate in leadership. Because we have been quasi-following the Thomas Jefferson Education philosophy in homeschooling our children, this comment really caught my attention.
I decided to email her to get her to elaborate on this brief statement. Here’s what I learned from her response.
Meheden chose Walden University because of its focus on social responsibility. Such a focus encourages its graduates to ensure they contribute positively to society rather than simply going into the world to make lots of money. Her PhD has required her to extensively research leadership models and practices from a wide array of situations, understand their theoretical base, and apply them in her life.
A new mayor needs to be more than someone who can tell everyone how wonderful Lethbridge is. A new mayor needs to be more than someone who can rein in any dissenters in council. A new mayor needs to be a leader.
Meheden knows how to lead and has a lot of experience being a leader.
Something else that has impressed me about Meheden is her commitment to volunteerism. At the mayoral forum Friday night, she answered a question about her experience to lead the city by mentioning the thousands of hours of community service she has put into Lethbridge. When she has been asked as a mayoral candidate to attend an event by its organizers, she claimed she always asks what she can do to help out at the event. Many aldermanic and mayoral candidates are only concerned about politicking at public events, and seeing someone who would rather volunteer than hobnob really impressed me.
She has even opened her home to shelter young girls in need as part of a programme through the YWCA. She not only attends SACPA events, she has a SACPA membership. She not only comes out to London Road Neighbourhood events, she has an LRNA membership. She is someone who walks the talk.
I was talking with someone at church yesterday about the mayoral race, and she said she had decided on Carrier for mayor because he has business experience. As I thought about this yesterday, I realized Meheden also brings business experience to the table. In fact, she brings quite the variety of experience to the table. She ran her own business and saw it double its revenues every year for five years. She has taught at university, and chaired the School of Business at the Lethbridge College. She has served on the board of Economic Development Lethbridge for several years.
I have known Meheden for several years, and the thing I like the most about her campaign is that she is still the same. She is authentic. I have never felt like she is pandering to garner my vote. She has been just as approachable for me during this election as she ever was. As well, she is humble, easily admits when she is wrong. With Meheden, what you see is what you get.
So, in short, I am voting for Cheryl Meheden because she is a true leader, a committed volunteer, an experienced businessperson and educator, and an authentic person. And it doesn’t hurt that she takes the bus to work.
If there is one thing I hate about cycling in Lethbridge, it’s the drivers.
Don’t get me wrong. Most of the drivers by far seem very polite and accommodating to a cyclist like me, who rides on the road with traffic rather than on pathways or sidewalks. They don’t seem to speed past me in frustration, they patiently wait behind me at stop lights, and so on.
But every once in awhile, people show up who don’t like to or know how to share the road with cyclists.
Consider this week:
- Two occasions when I am stopped at a stop sign at a 2-way stop intersection motor vehicles travelling in the direction perpendicular direction to me and stop, waving me through. They have no stop signs, so they are stopping illegally. I am not anywhere near the crosswalk, and am located exactly where a motor vehicle would be if it were in my place.
- I was stopped at another 2-way stop waiting to turn left. At the stop sign across the street from me, five motor vehicles are waiting for perpendicular traffic to clear so they can each, in turn, travel through the intersection. As a vehicle myself turning left, I do not have the right of way. The driver of a motor vehicle parked behind me leans out his window and yells, “Why don’t you walk your bike across the intersection?” I wonder if I were driving my van and waiting to turn left, would he yell, “Why don’t you walk your van across?”
- I was third in line at a red light. When the light turned green, I advanced with the two motor vehicles in front of me, and clearly signalled I was turning left. The vehicle behind me passed me on my left as he was turning left, too.
- I am at a red light in the left-hand lane. A motor vehicle pulls up beside me in the right-hand lane. On the traffic light post in front of us are clearly marked signs that indicate my lane is a through lane and the right lane is a turn-only lane. I advance with the green light, and the vehicle in the other lane tries passing me on my right.
I think it will be a while before cyclists is viewed in this city as legitimate users of the road.
Andrew & Jenny
My friend Andrew contacted me earlier in the week to see if I can help him out. He and his wife were married in April, but still had no photos of them in their wedding outfits. They had planned to do photos yesterday, but their photographer had to cancel at the last minute. They asked me if I could pinch hit for them, and since I am such a phenomenal friend, I said yes.
They were a great couple to photograph. I didn’t even have to come up with poses. They took care of everything themselves, I just did the shooting.
It was a nice experience, and I am glad I didn’t have to organize photos for an entire wedding party or the reception.
Check out the entire set on Flickr.
7 tips for a happy marriage
Mary and I have been married for over 15 years. Sure, it’s not 50 or 75 years, but I like to think we have a good marriage, and I like to think I have learned a thing or two about how to stay married.
I thought I would share what I have learned.
- Every time you say goodnight or goodbye, make “I love you” be the last thing you say. If one of you die, there will be no regrets about what you said last to each other.
- Boast about your spouse’s virtues, but keep their vices a secret.
- You don’t always have to prove you’re right. Even if you are.
- If your disagreement is getting cyclical (“Yes you did” “No I didn’t” “Yes you did”, etc), stop.
- Don’t wait until Valentine’s Day or Mother’s/Father’s Day to show appreciation to your spouse.
- Do things you know your spouse hates doing.
- Every time you feel like criticizing your spouse, think of two positive things to share instead.
That’s it. I quit.
Something I have prided myself on over the last few years has been my non-partisan involvement in politics. I don”t adhere to a specific political party in provincial or federal politics, and I don’t put all my eggs in one municipal basket. Per se.
Well, I ruined that. Sort of.
This year, against my best judgement, I involved myself with campaigns for two different candidates at different times leading up to this year’s municipal election.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’ve enjoyed helping them out and being a part of the process, and I believe I made positive contributions to both campaigns.
All that being said, I realized recently that working on specific campaigns means I cannot criticize freely. While I did my best to ensure all candidate were being held accountable, I felt while on these campaigns, I was trying to live two lives. In addition, any criticism I voiced to other candidates could be construed as being official statements from the candidates I was helping.
And I want to be objective.
As a result, today I announce publicly that I am not on any campaigns in this year’s municipal elections in Lethbridge. Any criticism or political commentary is made by me and me alone. It does not represent anyone else’s views.
Now, let the games begin.
If there’s one thing I have learned living in a semi-arid climate for 12 years without air conditioning, it’s a few tricks to keeping cool in the hot sun.
Granted, our 30+ degree weather in Southern Alberta is a pittance compared to true desert temperatures like Nevada and Arizona (or the Sahara for that matter). That being said, these tricks should still work in places like that, too.
Now, all the following assumes you don’t have an adobe house, which of course would be perfect for helping you keep cool.
- Keep the windows and doors closed during the day. This keeps all cool air in and the hot air out.
- Keep your blinds closed during the day.
- Dress in as little as possible.
- Keep air moving with fans. Circulating air will ensure you cool off when you sweat, which is the entire purpose of your sweating.
- Do not use the oven. Use a BBQ, George Foreman Grill, or something other than your oven.
- Eat cool foods (like pasta salads, garden salads, etc).
- Eat foods with high water content: watermelon, cucumbers, tomatoes, lettuce, etc.
- Eat frozen food (frozen fruit works great)
- Eat homemade popsicles.
- At night, keep your windows open. Even better, have one fan blowing air outside and one fan pulling air inside.
I have used all these techniques; they are tried, tested and true.
If you have other ideas, post them in the comments.
My 37th Birthday
All of my birthdays have always been about stuff.
But this year, I’m giving my birthday up.
I’m turning 37 years old this September, and instead of asking for gifts, I’m asking for $37 or more from everyone I know. It’s not going to me, though. All of it is going to build freshwater wells for people in developing nations.
A billion people in the world are living without clean water—but how much are they really living? Millions contract deadly diseases from contaminated water. 45,000 people will die this week alone. The lucky ones won’t, but still walk hours each day to get dirty water to give to their families.
My birthday wish this year is not for more gifts I don’t need; it’s to give clean and safe drinking water to some of the billion living without it. I want to make my birthday matter this year.
Because of charity: water’s unique model, 100% of all donations go directly to direct water projects costs, and each donation is “proved†and tracked to the village it helped when projects are complete.
My thoughts on the 2010 Winter Olympics
Five years ago, the Vancouver Organizing Committee announced the “Own the Podium” programme, designed to create world-class olympians ready to compete in Vancouver’s 2010 Winter Olympics, a process that normally takes a decade.
The idea was that if we create many such athletes, we could dominate the olympics in total medal count, which would of course been a record-breaking event for Canada.
The bad news is we didn’t succeed.
But wait. There’s good news.
It was still a record-breaking olympics for Canada:
- The first time we won a gold medal as host country
- The first country to reach double-digit gold medals in these games
- The highest number of gold medals in these games
- The highest number of gold medals of any country in any Winter Olympics
- The first time we have had a three-gold-medal day
- The first time in nearly 50 years we beat the Russians at men’s hockey at the Olympics
- The highest number of total medals we have ever won at any Winter Olympics
In addition, of the top 10 countries these games, Canada was one of only 2 countries to have more than half of their medals as golds.
Well done, Team Canada.